Quiet.
This word has defined me since I was little. I was the shy girl who blushed when people looked at her. The girl who was so soft-spoken that the teacher had to ask her to speak up every time she answered a question. The girl who was told that she needs to talk on the court and the field.
I was taught indirectly that the loud, energetic kids are the ones who become leaders, the ones who create new ideas and go on to change the world. I observed quiet kids constantly being overlooked. I realized that if you are not making noise you are not being noticed.
I still am this person. I still blush when I am at center stage, I am still frequently asked to repeat myself and I still struggle with communicating in athletics. The difference is that now I no longer dwell on these things. I no longer view my quiet demeanor and soft voice as weakness or something that makes me less valuable as a member of society.
After reading “Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking” by Susan Cain this year I have “a newfound sense of entitlement to be [my]self.” This book was captivating — so informative, inspiring and mind blowing. Everyone, whether you are an introvert or not, should read this book.
Recently I have been listening to podcasts about becoming more eco-friendly and one of the big things they talk about is, how to get people to listen to you and inspire change. The ways to do this are:
1. Get a diverse group of people around you to spread new ideas. This way people can find someone they relate to and listen to, and
2. Be transparent in your journey and be yourself, so, once again you can be more relatable.
While listening to these podcasts I have realized the importance of being “fearlessly authentic” (Dove Chocolate quote) and finding your voice whether it is public speaking, social media or a blog, I have also realized how important it is to listen and seek out unique voices. It is not easy for me to put myself out there. My introverted personality would much rather be behind the scenes, not front and center. That being said, I am passionate about Wholesome Hal’s and everything it stands for, so for me, it is worth it to be a little more extroverted than normal to promote my ideas.
If you are quiet, know that your voice matters even if it is soft. And if you are outspoken do not overlook the soft-spoken.
Since I was little, I have struggled to find my purpose. I was told that my personality and quiet demeanor was holding me back. This is not true.
One word does not define me.